In recent blog posts, I’ve talked about how important it is for you to create your dating plan for 2018. In order to create your dating plan, you must also create a plan for your Happiness as well.
You can date all you want, but I believe the most important component to successful dating, is living a happy and fulfilling life. Dating, while important if you’re single, should be just one activity that you do. You must live a happy and fulfilling life as well.
If you are living a happy and fulfilling life, this will come across on your dates, and you will be the one who stands out amongst the other ladies. You will be a breath of fresh air. There are many women (and men) who carry a chip on their shoulder, or they don’t value themselves. The way you carry yourself on a date is ultimately driven by the way you feel about yourself. How you carry yourself on a date will dictate how you make the guy feel, and if he wants to see you again.
Men don’t sit around analyzing (like most women do) how the date went. They just know how they felt when they were with you. They either felt amazing and can’t wait to go out again, or they didn’t feel a whole lot of anything and don’t try to go out with you again.
I don’t say this to be demeaning towards men as if they are too simple. In fact, it’s quite the opposite! I think its super smart and intuitive. They go with their gut more. Unfortunately, as women, we tend to analyze the date to death. I realize I’m being a bit extreme. I know men will think about it a bit, and not all women over analyze.
When it comes to dating, men just know how they feel when they are with you. If it feels great, they want to feel that more. If it doesn’t feel great, then they don’t.
If you don’t feel great about yourself, then you put a bad vibe out there, and they will feel that vibe.
If you feel good, then you carry a good vibe, and there is a much better chance the date will go well.
It’s simple. I love it.
You must have a happy and fulfilling life, and men have to feel a positive vibe while on a date with you. That is how you get to Date #2.