After my husband and I did a podcast episode a couple of weeks ago, we continue to discuss relationships even more. We genuinely like to talk about what makes a relationship work, what ruins relationships, and about the best way to find someone to spend your life with.
We both were at a difficult point in our lives. Alone after a difficult divorce, we found ourselves experiencing a lot of the same emotions and facing the same challenges. We still talk about it often and we’re so thankful to not be in that place anymore!
We both did a lot of work to get to where we are today…
We’re both so unbelievably grateful to be in a loving and fulfilling relationship with a person we adore.
We were chatting the other day about how people tend to approach dating. We discussed how quite often people approach it completely backwards!
What is this backwards approach that doesn’t work? Well, we often hear people say the same thing when they’re looking for love.
Often, people will say…
I will get myself together when I meet the right person.
I will work on that about myself when I meet someone whose worth it.
This drives me nuts because it’s completely backwards.